Mother of four murders four year old son she thought was gay.

The title says it all as heart wrenching as it is, things like this occur everyday. The simple fact that she murdered her four year old. This case reminds me of an episode of "What would you do" when the father (male actor) tried to get other people to convince his son (child actor) to stop grabbing the barbies and go for the toy cars. Now from what I heard from other mothers (on the show) that playing with "girly toys" is a phase and it's best to let your sons and daughters experience both boy and girl toys and stuff. I remember when I was six all the way until I was ten I loved playing football, basketball, four square, gymnastics, wrestling, watching WWE, I definitely disliked skirts,dresses, cup bras,pink and everything associated with girly stuff. I was a tomboy and my mom allowed me to explore everything. Did I grow out of it yes all except for two sports and sports bras regular bras aren't my thing. What I'm trying to say is that how could she have know he was gay? Enough with my experience I must say this story is one of the many that brought me to tears. Just three hours ago the woman Dutro's now eight year old daughter testified. The four year old who was murdered name is Zachary he died August 2012. Dutro's boyfriend Brian Canady pleaded guilty to manslaughter to the first degree




"Zachary’s older sister told investigators that “Jessica and Brian” beat Zachary until he was sick. They knew he wasn't doing well, but they didn’t tell anyone, she said.
She also reported that she and her two preschool-aged brothers were put in timeout for long stretches. They were forced to “face the wall” with their hands in the air. If their arms dropped, she said, Dutro or Canady would hit them"
What the little girl said.
The girl and her two surviving brothers now live with Dutro’s relatives. "It's fun" she said







Information Sources:
 http://news.msn.com/crime-justice/prosecutor-mom-killed-son-she-perceived-to-be-gay
http://www.oregonlive.com/tigard/index.ssf/2014/03/jessica_dutros_8-year-old_daug.html#incart_river_default
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STEaM Science fair 2014

So today I'm at science fair and I'm absolutely nervous! I've been last  year but I was not competing... This year I am... Enough with the dot dot but about the JCBIBLE Journey I have been slacking.. I thought I said enough with the dot dot dot but yeah. I hope I place or get best board, something I don't care at least I made it to district right?

2/11/14 7:33 AM

Should students be content with mediocre education?

The answer to that should be no but if it's yes please feel free to share your opinions in the comments below. Where you want to admit it or not education is very crucial to us as Americans, it's as Patrick Henry   said give me liberty or give me death...Well give me education or give me.. definitely not death but poverty. The deprivation of education will eventually lead to death of knowledge which leads to poverty and generations of stupidity. I know the school system will say "well you have to be self motivated" but self motivation isn't enough for the people who have no example of hardwork and persistence. It's harder than what people think really it is. Even the stereotypes that are dished out to each race plays a key role in our education. When one race is labeled as dummies sure enough they will get dumber the more you label them intelligent the more intelligent they will be. Of course I know stereotypes  are not an excuse (of course not) but to give an example when you are teaching a dog a trick you repeatedly say it until they get it and sit down. Another example you have a baby, you name that baby, eventually your child will start answering to that name. So yeah stereotypes do play a part. Students should want more for theirselves because in the end we are the ones who need to get a job later on not our teachers who already have one. We need to take control and not allow all this bleh blah bleh get in our way. Its so hard I know but at the same time we can do it I wonder when we will finally get our act together and perform our very best. I know we should all want top notch edu. I will never wrap my head around just settling for something less. All I know is that as for me I will get me education to the fullest. I hope everyone finds the drive to want more..

How I feel on Nigerian men getting arrested for being gay...

First I want to start off by saying that as a believer in Christ Jesus I'm against homosexuality, I am entitled to that opinion and so are you, you are welcomed to post your comments below. Personally I feel as if you can't force your opinion on everyone and it goes for both parties Nigeria and Human rights activist, as Americans we should stay out of other people politics and business because one it can start a war as we almost experienced with the Syria incident, and two we can't force what we think on other countries. Just as we gained and fought for our independence by ourselves (the French did help us towards the end) and for other things like voting rights, how about  we let the people of the country fight out their battles. Sounds selfish doesn't it but the truth hurts, it might even sound mean letting a 'underdeveloped country' fight their own battle something they've been doing for how long now, but it's not, if the people want gay rights bad enough they will fight for it. America has a big heart if you want to say so I can understand why we want to help everyone but that's if the person wants it and all that other stuff. If you are a believer in Christ this is for you if you're not this is still for you because it speaks to everyone... You have a choice. I mean its just like how God gives a choice to either serve him or not. Hope that makes sense because I don't think my point is being conveyed clear enough. I don't agree that they throw them in jail for it but at least they could expose the love of Christ to them because ,again, God, gives us a choice. Wait... that is what I was trying to say earlier but I don't feel up to it to go up and fix it lol. Anyways I still think that people should bash Africa for banning homosexuality, that's like other countries bashing America for using inches instead of centimeters... (not really but really) It's a sexual orientation right yeah, but then again it's apart of life nothing will be fair,free, or just.  If you happen to notice I am just talking about America and no I'm not slandering my country, there are other countries including Nigerian who are standing against the Jail the Gay, This is me saying why America shouldn't heavily get involved with it.. but to each his own. One more thing I'm not condoning any type of wrong doing towards the men involved.

By the way you can read about the incident on:

http://www.foxnews.com/world/2014/01/14/dozens-alleged-gay-people-arrested-in-north-nigeria-even-before-new-anti-gay/

http://www.usatoday.com/story/news/world/2014/01/13/nigeria-bans-gays-marriage-gay-meetings/4457085/

http://www.nydailynews.com/news/world/nigeria-bans-gay-marriage-criminalizes-homosexuality-article-1.1578175

Boys Can Get Sexually Assaulted Too!

Boys can't get raped, can they? It's impossible ! Boys will get over it.

When it comes down to boys getting molested , sexually harassed and raped(That's what it really is) all eyes turn away. The problem is, society believes that boys and men are the wrongdoers when it involves sexual assault. Though Females are more likely to be victims of rape or sexual assault (182,000) than males (40,000).I believe that there are more men and boys who have been sexually assaulted and are too ashamed to say since men are supposed to be the head of the house and strong. Being sexually assaulted is an emotional tear, it hurts you physically,emotionally so imagine a young boy going through that.

Women can't rape,molest, or sexually harass.Can they? 

Well the truth is they do"According to Court TV, Beth Friedman, 42, was convicted in Florida of contributing to the delinquency of a minor, Donald Vaden, because the boy claimed that when he was only 15, she offered him gifts of alcohol and drugs in exchange for sex. Her defense was that he was extorting her for money by making up lies. In the same state, Denise McBryde, 38, admitted to having sexual relations with a 15-year-old student, while in Minnesota, Julie Feil, 32, pleaded guilty to a three-month sexual affair with a student, claiming that she loved him "the best way I knew how." Kimberly Merson, 24, brought eight underage boys to her home, got them drunk, removed their clothes, and had sex with them." (Ramsland) They think just because it was "romantic" and "non violent" or a" willing" victim that all of their actions are justified, that's pure nonsense given the fact that many men are slapped with the label of sex offenders when the victims were more than willing. It's unfair that boys get overlooked when it comes to the big "R" (rape). Yes rape boys get raped. I remember a conversation with a male friend of mine who actually thought it was okay for a 14 boy to date a 20 year old woman. That's the equivalent to saying it's okay for a a 14 year old girl with a 20 year old man and see that's the problem that society has today boys are left out. I know my parents will flip if I had a 20 year old boyfriend and if my brother had a 20 year old girlfriend but what about other people? Sexual predators male and female, adult and child all have a severe effect on the lives of their victims. That's a proven fact but can we focus on the boys as well. I hope I'm making my point clear enough but can we all keep in mind girls are not the only victims.

Here in my country

America. Land of the free. Many different cultures.Secrets. To a lot of people America is the ideal place to live. Personally I agree exactly 95%.Despite having rights and being able to get public education for free,just like with every good thing something evil comes along,there is an underground America.Whether the "bigwigs" go over to East/Southeast Asia/Eastern Europe  to pay for sex with underage boys and girls or teens run away and  end up as a prostitute or even a parent selling there kid(s) for a hit (and there's one more "or") or their parent's prostituting them to get some profit.It tick-tocks in my head as I lay in bed at night about My underground America. As much as I love my country it hurts to know kids my age, younger and seniors have to go through this in my country and yours. It seems like no matter where,always in the
dark.Yeah Child Labor sucks, but it's a real issue that millions of children and adults go through.http://www.geoffreyjmiller.com/2013/06/a-new-bill-seeks-to-increase-penalties.html

Effects of Child Labor and Recommendations for further information

The consequences of child labor can lead to...

1.   No childhood due to having long hours of work and abuse
2. Lost of limbs,death,and even dehydration/starvation
3. Sexual molestation, can lead to perversion and then themselves becoming a pedophile and suffering from pedophilia  
4. When grown up the children live on poverty due to lack of education and communication skills

There are no documented or recorded effects of long term effects caused by child labor. Although there are some books out by people who once actually like landmines in Cambodia activist and author Loung Ung with the book First They Killed My Father: A Daughter Of Cambodia  Remembers I  recommend that book because it is so moving and the events Mrs.Loung went through are scary,chilling and sad because  I don't think  I would be able to live without my pa ma or eldest and youngest sisters. I personally think Mrs.Loung went through those events with courage and I will wonder how she was able to keep sane after what she had went through but I  suggest you read the book to find out for yourself.
 Iqbal  Even though I am still on chapter ten I still recommend this book my third period teacher Ms.Fabian has us reading this book because our module is on child labor (I am doing this blog by myself) and the book has been getting super interesting and intense anybody would like it really the author is

http://loungung.com/

Loung Ung

Author

Francesco D'Adamo

 of Iqbal

 Iqbal Masih