Boys Can Get Sexually Assaulted Too!

Boys can't get raped, can they? It's impossible ! Boys will get over it.

When it comes down to boys getting molested , sexually harassed and raped(That's what it really is) all eyes turn away. The problem is, society believes that boys and men are the wrongdoers when it involves sexual assault. Though Females are more likely to be victims of rape or sexual assault (182,000) than males (40,000).I believe that there are more men and boys who have been sexually assaulted and are too ashamed to say since men are supposed to be the head of the house and strong. Being sexually assaulted is an emotional tear, it hurts you physically,emotionally so imagine a young boy going through that.

Women can't rape,molest, or sexually harass.Can they? 

Well the truth is they do"According to Court TV, Beth Friedman, 42, was convicted in Florida of contributing to the delinquency of a minor, Donald Vaden, because the boy claimed that when he was only 15, she offered him gifts of alcohol and drugs in exchange for sex. Her defense was that he was extorting her for money by making up lies. In the same state, Denise McBryde, 38, admitted to having sexual relations with a 15-year-old student, while in Minnesota, Julie Feil, 32, pleaded guilty to a three-month sexual affair with a student, claiming that she loved him "the best way I knew how." Kimberly Merson, 24, brought eight underage boys to her home, got them drunk, removed their clothes, and had sex with them." (Ramsland) They think just because it was "romantic" and "non violent" or a" willing" victim that all of their actions are justified, that's pure nonsense given the fact that many men are slapped with the label of sex offenders when the victims were more than willing. It's unfair that boys get overlooked when it comes to the big "R" (rape). Yes rape boys get raped. I remember a conversation with a male friend of mine who actually thought it was okay for a 14 boy to date a 20 year old woman. That's the equivalent to saying it's okay for a a 14 year old girl with a 20 year old man and see that's the problem that society has today boys are left out. I know my parents will flip if I had a 20 year old boyfriend and if my brother had a 20 year old girlfriend but what about other people? Sexual predators male and female, adult and child all have a severe effect on the lives of their victims. That's a proven fact but can we focus on the boys as well. I hope I'm making my point clear enough but can we all keep in mind girls are not the only victims.

Here in my country

America. Land of the free. Many different cultures.Secrets. To a lot of people America is the ideal place to live. Personally I agree exactly 95%.Despite having rights and being able to get public education for free,just like with every good thing something evil comes along,there is an underground America.Whether the "bigwigs" go over to East/Southeast Asia/Eastern Europe  to pay for sex with underage boys and girls or teens run away and  end up as a prostitute or even a parent selling there kid(s) for a hit (and there's one more "or") or their parent's prostituting them to get some profit.It tick-tocks in my head as I lay in bed at night about My underground America. As much as I love my country it hurts to know kids my age, younger and seniors have to go through this in my country and yours. It seems like no matter where,always in the
dark.Yeah Child Labor sucks, but it's a real issue that millions of children and adults go through.http://www.geoffreyjmiller.com/2013/06/a-new-bill-seeks-to-increase-penalties.html

Effects of Child Labor and Recommendations for further information

The consequences of child labor can lead to...

1.   No childhood due to having long hours of work and abuse
2. Lost of limbs,death,and even dehydration/starvation
3. Sexual molestation, can lead to perversion and then themselves becoming a pedophile and suffering from pedophilia  
4. When grown up the children live on poverty due to lack of education and communication skills

There are no documented or recorded effects of long term effects caused by child labor. Although there are some books out by people who once actually like landmines in Cambodia activist and author Loung Ung with the book First They Killed My Father: A Daughter Of Cambodia  Remembers I  recommend that book because it is so moving and the events Mrs.Loung went through are scary,chilling and sad because  I don't think  I would be able to live without my pa ma or eldest and youngest sisters. I personally think Mrs.Loung went through those events with courage and I will wonder how she was able to keep sane after what she had went through but I  suggest you read the book to find out for yourself.
 Iqbal  Even though I am still on chapter ten I still recommend this book my third period teacher Ms.Fabian has us reading this book because our module is on child labor (I am doing this blog by myself) and the book has been getting super interesting and intense anybody would like it really the author is

http://loungung.com/

Loung Ung

Author

Francesco D'Adamo

 of Iqbal

 Iqbal Masih

Kony 2012

As we all know about Kony (Joseph Kony the Worlds Worst War Criminals) and his ruthless killing towards children.But did you know you can help stop it and support his arrest,break down the LRA,and help the child soldiers return and be kids like they should. Here is  how you can  help and  also more information on this situation.http://www.kony2012.com/       

http://www.invisiblechildren.com/about.html

Joseph Kony

A victim of Kony's Actions

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Y4MnpzG5Sqc  Kony 2012 Vid

Chocolate & Child Labor

We can all fight against child labor by doing our research like for example Chocolate!Yes I said chocolate it might surprise you but it's true.Those big Brand names like M&M/Mars,Hershey are  supporting the fact that children  harvest their Cocoa  beans.Some of us should already know that the price of Cocoa beans went down,It takes nine-hundred coca beans to make just one kilogram (or that's just what my resources tell me),and chocolate is down right delicious.I am not saying that you can't eat chocolate because here's the trick to STOP supporting child labor.
Fair Trade Symbol

1. Go to an all natural store like Chuck's or etc...
2. Write letters or call the big brand names and ask questions etc...(number and address will be presented down below
3. Look for chocolate with the fair trade label
4. Tell family,friends,church members
5. And REFUSE to buy the big  brand names   

http://www.thehersheycompany.com/contact-us.aspx 

Google

Child,Teens,Babies "Modeling"

Okay so as I was searching for a completely different subject for my  child labor research ,I came across a article and website that just makes me angry and sick.I am a kid to so this just completely hurt my feelings.As you know some children are forced to be prostitutes or perform lewd acts.I will get in the story but first please let me just warn you.Warning this content may be inappropriate ,sickening, and just flat out wrong if you can not bear to see this I'm telling you please don't. http://teenmodeling.tv/ http://www.thepeopleimage-top100.com/ This is a news report on the "Safe Teenage Modeling" on Fox http://www.foxnews.com/story/0,2933,349834,00.html This one even more disturbing    http://website.informer.com/visit?domain=emmie.imodels.in I hate to even say this but why is this even lgal WHY especially this site little girls showing their bodies this is COMPLETE nonsense disgusting and I have NO WORDS FOR THIS I mean a little girl showing people her butt and that's okay and yes I am attacking these types of websites this is Oh my just I can't explain it I mean why why WHY  We need to bond together to fight this this is not okay this is really not okay grown men out there are actually looking this saying "Oh that's hot" If there is anything I hate more it's when adults allow this to happen,sit there and watch child pornography, and think it's okay for this to go on They really need to go die in hole for this I mean all the other site were not this extreme as a twelve year old girl  I am going to stand up for what's right and fight against this even if I have to do it by myself. This is how you can help report child porn http://www.missingkids.com/missingkids/servlet/PageServlet?LanguageCountry=en_US&PageId=2936

Forms of Child Labor

• Restaveks  "from the French language French reste avec, "one who stays with") is a child in who is sent by their parents to work for a host household as a domestic servant because the parents lack the resources required to support the child. Restavek may refer to a child staying with a host family, but usually refers specifically to those who are abused." Excerpt from wikipedia first paragraph  http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Restavec 
•  Debt Bondage-When  a parent/guardian owes a debt (money etc.) and can not pay it off so therefore the children are forced to work. 
• Human Trafficking -Forcing children to work in the field of prostitution  and/or in pornographic performances and pornography
• Agriculture - Children laboring in fields;harvesting 
• Street kids-Children who call the streets "home".In some cases the children just work there selling informal economy items.
• Forced Labor-Kidnapping or tricking kids into forced labor

  There are many other forms of Child Labor these are just in my opinion the worst form of it.Please tell me in comments below if I have missed any other worst form of Child labor.Thanks.